May 18, 2012

Gratitude by Wendy Strgar

Gratitude by Wendy Strgar

“Gratitude is the heart’s memory.”  French proverb I have generally not been a sports fan in life, but living with my husband for over 20 years and raising two sons has trained me in the importance of the game.  Tonight we shared a real loss as we watched the dreams of our star quarterback slip [...]

Truth by Wendy Strgar

Truth by Wendy Strgar

“The world is too dangerous for anything but truth and too small for anything but love.”  W.S. Coffin Telling the truth in relationships is perhaps the most challenging aspect of relating.  Not doing it makes relationships impossible.  It is difficult because it takes time to know our own truth and because often even as we [...]

A Slippery Slope by Wendy Strgar

A Slippery Slope by Wendy Strgar

There are many days that being married, or rather staying married is the most challenging thing that I do.   This is still true after 24 years of marriage, no less so than it has been in all of the years of my marriage.   The conflicts revolve around the same issues and although we often succeed [...]

A Marriage For The Long Haul by Chynna Laird

A Marriage For The Long Haul by Chynna Laird

My grandfather started his day every morning at 5:30. His cheery, early morning whistling always woke me up. I remember peeking around the edge of the doorframe to see Grandpa, with a tea towel over his left shoulder, as he moved like a graceful swan around the kitchen. The routine was the same each day: [...]

Should-Free Living by Heather Strang – Relationships

Should-Free Living by Heather Strang

Heather Strang, and co-author Brooke Emery, wrote the upcoming book Stop Shoulding On Yourself! A Woman’s Guide From Obligation to Inspiration. The book encourages women to live from an authentic and should-free space. So, grab a cup of tea and read on…who knows, you just might find some great ideas for your own life… Dear [...]

Tantra for the Un-initiated by Wendy Strgar

Tantra for the Un-initiated by Wendy Strgar

This is the textbook for what sex was made for. Centuries old, tantric practices are part of a much larger hindu/vedic tradition of which sexuality is only part. The full practice is a life long spiritual quest which demonstrates the interconnectedness of everything and includes yoga, meditation, breath work as well as sexual techniques. The [...]

The Promises that Matter by Wendy Strgar

The Promises that Matter

A promise is a commitment you make with your heart.  Promises are not like other decisions that we make that have open ended options of easy termination if it doesn’t suit our needs or doesn’t make us happy.  The act of promising releases the right to reason on some level, because keeping a promise requires [...]

The Ecology of Love by Wendy Strgar

The Ecology of Love by Wendy Strgar

When I teach about the Ecology of Love and talk about the water that lives between people I often use the term “showing up” to describe the flow that happens in relationships.   In relationships, like the ocean,  there is an ebb and tide to how we are present for each other,  but if the water [...]

You Are What You Love by Wendy Strgar

“You are what you love, not what loves you. That’s what I decided a long time ago.”  I have remembered this concluding line of a conversation between Nicolas Cage and himself (when he played the twin writer brothers in the 2002 movie “Adaptation”) for over five years.  I have many times thought back on it [...]

Getting What You Need by Wendy Strgar

“You can’t always get what you want, but if you try sometimes, you get what you need…” That Rolling Stones refrain is playing in my head repeatedly of late and it seems clear that this is as true a love song as I have ever known.  Although I would never have thought it in my [...]

 
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